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Personal History

While I was raised as a Christian, I believe God especially got me by the throat sometime in late high-school. I remember getting very interested in the book of Revelation, for some reason, and reading a few pages each night before I went to bed. What caught my attention weren't the end-times details, but the simple and dramatic picture of Christ. Here was a man, a God-man, born as humble "lamb" but who will one day visibly gather-up and reign over the whole cosmos. "If there really is a Jesus anything like what this book describes," I thought, "then I and everybody else ought to live differently.” If Jesus was just a myth or an elaborate metaphor, then he could be safely ignored or studied as you would any mythical figure. But if he was for real, then he would have to matter more than anything else. So, in stumbling and very quiet ways, I began to grow in the faith, mostly without other Christian friends.

When I entered Cal Poly as a freshman, however, I hit a major faith crisis - how, really, could I be so sure that Jesus was for real and the Bible was true? Many of my dorm-mates were enthusiastic hedonists who happily lived in obvious disregard for most traditional morality. This didn't surprise me; I'd seen all the movies that show the excesses of life in a college dorm. What began to bother me was that I wasn't sure I could make a case for why my moral preferences were any truer than theirs. That my lifestyle was wiser they might have admitted themselves, but what about truer? I tried to live by the Bible’s commands, but what could I possibly say to my hall-mate who would reply, "That's great for you, but I live my life according to the credo of sex, drugs, and rock 'n roll." (OK, the rock ‘n roll part wasn’t so bad, for by now I was a DJ at KCPR.) Frankly, this was a terrifying position – was Christianity in any sense objectively true, or had I been just enculturated into it? Is it merely a subjective preference? Was Freud right that my religious beliefs were a sneaky creation of my subconscious, trying to compensate for who-knows-what psychological deficiency?

The struggle to find objective ground for my belief lasted most of a year. I can completely sympathize with the early Existentialists who wrote about the "angst" and "nausea" of fearing that the world was meaningless and unknowable. But two things happened during that year that eventually brought my crisis to an end: I discovered dead Christian apologists, and I made friends with a handful of smart, living, Christians (most of whom lived one floor up from my hedonist friends). On one hand, I started reading everything I could get my hands on that argued either for or against Christianity. I read Muslim theologians, rationalist skeptics, even an English bishop who thought all traditional Christian doctrine was old-fashioned and ridiculous. But I also discovered writers like C.S. Lewis, Dostoevsky, and a few others who took all of my questions and doubts seriously, and had reasons for belief that went even deeper. To summarize a long journey, I came to realize that my doubts were themselves based on a lot of unproven assumptions (to specialists: my religious epistemology was put on trial and found to be, well, blindly attached to Enlightenment rationalism), and, I came to believe that it made much more sense to believe in the Jesus of the New Testament than to reject him. The Christian faith is much more than an intellectual assent to a list of beliefs, of course, but for me, I couldn’t go further with Christianity unless I was certain I wasn’t being hoodwinked. I do not now believe that Christianity is provable by some criteria of "proof", but I do believe that it is far more reasonable to be a Christian than not, that Christ is compelling to those who come to him objectively, and that the Bible itself holds up very well as historic testimony. I have also become convinced that knowing and believing in Christ answers some of the most basic human yearnings, and that doing so does not require turning off one's mind.

The other factor that year was the group of Christians I met. Most of them were smart, funny, compassionate, and basically lived as if Jesus Christ was real and utterly important. It was from them that I learned much about how to live as a Christian, how to worship, how to explain Christianity to others, and how live with that mysterious combination of humility and conviction that Christ asks of his people. They also encouraged me to lead a dorm Bible-study, which I did, and by the end of college I began to think that full-time work in some type of ministry fit my gifts and interests more than working in industry. After graduation, I packed the car and drove to Boston where I spent the next several years at Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary, and eventually (skipping way ahead) finished doctoral work at the University of Bristol (UK) in historical theology. If college was about becoming gripped and convinced of basic Christianity, seminary and grad school was about going deep into theology and biblical studies (which I decided I'd better do before inflicting anyone with lectures or sermons!) With some trepidation I accepted an invitation to plant a church in San Luis Obispo. Trinity Presbyterian Church had its first worship service in summer of 1995. My main work, since then, has been as a pastor. In a part-time way I’ve also kept up with academics - I've had the pleasure lecturing in Religious Studies and Cal Poly and in the Philosophy department of Cuesta College, and I am also an adjunct professor for a local extension of Fuller Theological Seminary.

More importantly, along the way I met and married Sally, a Southerner-without-an-accent, and we now have two children and live near downtown San Luis Obispo. Sally can explain to you the ideals of "New Urbanism" and why everyone should do as we did by moving to the town core, but I will just tell you than waking up to the smell of bacon from the nearby diner and getting to walk to church, my office, and scones, has a utopian ring to it.

Renewing San Luis Obispo with the Gospel of Jesus Christ